5 things to make your relationship stronger and last longer

We won't just be talking about how to make a relationship fun,but also what keeps a relationship stronger and firm.
But first I would like to thank my blog viewers. Those that always take their time to visit my blog. Most people ask themselve how they can make their relationship strong and last longer. Things will be mentioned here to help you cause they are my logics and it has helped me and is still helping me.

•   Best Friends: I didn't mention love first because truly speaking,friendship should come first. Make your partner your best friend first. I once heard from someone "that a relationship is not just about two lovers,but about two best friends who find each other lovely to become lovers". Make your partner your best friend and you will be free around each other.
•  Confidant: Your partner must be your first confidant. It's true that your mum should be your first confidant but when you get to that stage of being in a relationship,your confidant changes to your partner. After all one of the reasons for us being in a relationship is to be able to tell someone the weirdest things you can't tell your mum.
• Trust: For you to have being able to confide in your partner is because you trust the person. Trust is also the main ingredient or should I say the main material to building a strong relationship. Don't shift blames. If your partner tells you she was busy that was why she missed your call then believe her. You can't trust someone if you don't give the person the benefit of doubt. If she tells you yes then take it like that.
• Spiritual life : Yes!! This is also part of it. I'm a good evidence. It has really worked for me. Pray for your partner. Above everything in your relationship,put God first. Let him know about the plans you and your partner had. Put him in everything and what's more,always pray for your partner. If you want your relationship to last longer and stronger then you both need each others prayers. Anytime you pray,make sure to remember your partner. Your partner grows because of your help. So help each other both spiritually,psychologically,financially and even educationally.
• Love: Yes!! Love I shld say will be my last. Remember my first on the list?? Best friends. You must first be best friends. And remember I said,that best friends are those who find each other lovely to become lovers? Yes.. When you are able to become best of friends,I know you will first love him/her has a friend,but when you find your boyfriend/girlfriend in the person then the feeling changes to real love.

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