How to know you are judgemental in your relationship

Being judgemental in your relationship is a very bad thing. For you to be in a relationship,you do not need to be the judge of your relationship be you the girl/boy in the relationship. We need to look into it today because this is what has broken some relationships today. For you to be in a relationship,it means you are mature and you are able to put things under control. Be it anger,jealousy or pride. Relationships are for matured minds and not just for those that thinks that they want to join the queue of people in a relationship. I will say a judgemental person is someone who reacts to something without even thinking of it before passing any judge. Being judgemental is not all that bad because it is our inner mind that is talking and making those decisions. But when you take it to the extreme without even thinking is when you become judgemental.   

HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE JUDGEMENTAL

• When you start getting annoyed at every little thing done by your partner .
• When you start getting jealous at every little thing which will make you always complain and judge.
• Your pride can make you judge mental at some stage in your relationship. You tend to always see the mistake of your partner than the ones he/she did well.
• When you decide to continue your relationship based on the past it mistakes of your partner which will always make you judge your partner with the mistakes he did in the past.
•  You are annoyed when he doesn't do what you want him to do. You need to understand that he can't be at your disposal at all time.
• You find out that you can't tolerate him because of a particular behavior he/she has. You must understand that in a relationship,you are meant to correct each others mistakes.
• You should also take note when you can't appreciate your partner for every little thing that he/she does for you. Nothing is too small to be appreciated in a relationship. You must appreciate your partner for everything he/she does for you instead of you complaining.
• If you don't trust your partner you should know that you are judgemental.

Does any of these feature resemble you in your relationship? Well nothing is spolt. Something can still be done.
WHAT TO DO IF YOU FIND OUT THAT YOU HAVE ANY OF THESE FEATURES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

• Make sure to find out what the real matter is before you judge.
• Since its the relationship between the both of you,you should learn how to accept the messy part of your relationship.
• Before you judge your partner,try to be in his/her shoes to know why he/she had to take that step. Don't just jump into conclusion start judging.

It's not as if being judgemental is all that bad,but it has to be controlled by your inner self. Don't let it dominate you in your relationship as it might cause a breakup. Your partner might become fed up and decide not to continue with you. So be conscious.

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