Drug abuse is another issue we need to talk about. People tend to misuse drugs especially young people. They tend to use drugs excessively because they think it's good for them or because they want to be among the crew of friends.
                                          MEANING OF DRUG ABUSE
Drug abuse as the name implies is the excessive use of drug without a doctors prescription.
If you check you will see that the category of drug abusers are mostly teenagers. They do this because they see their peers doing the same and because they want to fee among.
               HOW IT STARTS

• from peers 
• wrong friends
• wanting to also be among
• Wrong advice

                                           EFFECTS OF DRUG ABUSE

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                                             MEANING OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE


 Emotional abuse as our topic today can be seen mostly in relationships,marriages,families friends and colleagues. Emotional abuse can be seen as a feeling of self worthlessness or self esteem that is been caused by another. Making someone feel less important or making them feel a low self esteem means that you are emotionally abusing the person.

                                           EMOTIONAL ABUSE VS PHYSICAL ABUSE.

Emotional abuse is quite worst than the physical abuse. People often think that physical abuse is worst than the emotional abuse but it's not true because physical abuse keeps wounds on your outer self but emotional abuse is something that can't be seen buy felt. Emotional abuse is more serious than physical abuse because it can at times affect your way of thinking amd the  way you behave among your friends. Emotional abuse is mainly seen in relationships because the guy will always want to impose some certain types of authority over you which will definitely change your way of thinking and your way of doing things.

                                        TYPES OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE .

Verbal emotional abuse: This is when he shouts at you and embarrasses you in public because of a small fault .Social emotional abuse: This is when he tends to monitor your social medial and the what you do there. He monitors your relationship with friends and loved ones. He always wants you two to be together all the time
                        HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP.


sixteen warnings will be discussed here 

1)He never misses the opportunity to call you names and embarrass you in public .
2)He always wants you to agree to everything he says .
3)He always monitors you movements and the people you meet .
4)He never gives room for you to have a social life with the opposite sex .
5)He always wants you around him .
6)He will never give your ideas a second thought.
7)He just dismisses them even before you finish .
8)He keeps track of your calls .
9)He always claims to he jealous and in that way he insults you .
10)He accuses you of everything even when it's not your fault .
11)He accuses you for his errors .He never apologizes for anything .
12)He will always want to be the Mr right in everything.
13)Always accuses  you of cheating.
14)He forces you to do only his bidding even when you don't want to.
15)Always use your weakness against you.
16)Always recognizes your fault and uses them against you

                  WHAT TO DO IF YOU NOTICE SUCH IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

 It is of  a truth that you can never change an emotional abuser. No matter what you try to do for him,he will always find a fault in it. If you experience such in your relationship then you should try this steps
 1)Try staying away from the abuser: Don't always keep in touch with the abuser as he will always make you feel like you are not worth the time.
2)Always dismiss him when you see any sign of it: When you are with him and you sense that he will insult you or something,it's better you walk away and leave the discussion.
 3)Let him know hoe you feel: Anytime he insults you and you feel you are hurt inside,make him know that you don't appreciate his harsh comments,let him know that when he tries it again you will walk out on him.
4)Do the things you love doing: Just concentrate on the things that make you happy. Try doing new things that will keep your mind busy and off you abuser
5)Stay around motivational people: If you feel like your set of friends motivates you,then try hooking up with them. Stay around the people that will make you happy and see things the brighter way.
6)You can choose to walk out: Since you cannot change him then what is the use of being with somebody that only hurt you. If you choose to leave then you are free. After all you are not the same person and there is nothing you can do about their case. Instead of you suffering in silence then why not just walk out and surround yourself with people that will give you joy because if you choose to continue,it might affect you in every aspect of your life that even you will look down on yourself. Was this write up useful?? Why not tell me more of how you feel in that relationship and you will be surprised the responses you will get that will help you. Like always feel fell to comment in the box below and to like my page. You can also subscribe to always get every updates on my blog and interesting topics.

Before I start this one of my interesting posts,I will like to say a big thank you to my blog designer Tijani Ridwan. He really did a very good job for me. And I will also like to thank my viewers for checking out my last two posts How to stop that boring relationship and also Sexual abuse on women in our society. Another post for today will is Domestic violence.
Yes!!!Domestic violence as one of the 100 ways to die. Well as you know,I don't just post my own views,I also make sure my viewers on social media is appreciated.
Domestic violence as defined in the dictionary is a violent behaviour on the other especially in a relationship/marriage.
Types
Domestic violence is of different types. It doesn't just happen in a domestic way,it can also happen both,sexually,social,physical,and emotional.
Today we will be talking just on the physical abuse which is more rampant in our society today.
Physical abuse
It is a kind of abuse/violence that is been melted on other by a stronger person in a way that it will cause harm to the other.
This physical abuse/violence is mostly present in marriages between couples where you will hear that a man beats up his wife. Well this violence can be of different kinds
Types of physical violence/abuse

• Beating
• Strangling
• Scratching
• Biting
• Kicking
• Blowing

Use of any kind of physical object that will cause harm.
Women is mostly been abused physically in marriages by the men.
Marriages today faces that blow of domestic violence.
How to know when it starts
It actually starts anyhow and anywhere. It starts with a slap. At first you will see it as annoyance of the other and you will let it pass. And then it happens again and it will happen again. If u were able to over look the first time and the second,I don't think it will be right to over look it the third time because it will soon become an habit.
Who to seek help from

• A marriage counsellor shouldn't be such a bad idea especially if you have one for you marriage. You should seek help from them because at least they are experts
• A family member also should be an option.Report to a family member especially the persons family members. Let them know what is going on and you can also make it known to your own family members. 
• A rehabilitation centre shouldn't be a bad place to go. See if he can be rehabilitated to the man you once knew.
• You can also call the emergency number(000) to get help.
• The police must be an option if you know you have tried others and it's not working. He might be given some kind of warnings and he will be under watch.
• Woman right. Yes the woman right is also a good option to try. 
• Confide in a close friend of yours and seek for advise.

 I'm not trying to say you should tell your problems to the world. Prevention is better than cure they say. So instead of staying at home and receiving this torture,why not confident in someone and seek help. A problem shared is halve solved.

Don't relent to comment and add more ways you think it can be prevented as it will be appreciated.


More to come on
Emotional abuse
Social abuse
You can click here for sexual abuse on women in our society today

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